Finally writing to report back on the results of my first attempt here. Despite my period showing up to ruin the week, the person I was talking to suggested meeting anyway that Tuesday night for a bite to eat (actual food, not me naturally.) When he showed up looking like he did--tall, slender yet tightly muscled, and with well-kept dreads that spilled over his shoulders--the corners of my mouth quirked up. I had an idea of how the night could progress.
To no one's surprise, we rounded out the evening at his place, where he cleverly plied me with massage oil and dexterous hands to intended effect. The Xx played in the background while we writhed about half-naked, trying very hard to keep away from my pants. Ultimately thwarted by biology, we parted with the understanding that we would absolutely make plans to meet again and finish what we started. Once the holidays were over, said reunion did indeed happen 2.5 weeks later.
I'll be honest: the first time he went down, I could tell immediately that his style was geared toward women who enjoy direct, more intense, clitoral stimulation. I'm the exact opposite. Thereby followed a small adjustment period, which we quickly sorted out with minimal fuss. Came once, twice, and then fucked him too (decent girth, nothing scary, roughly 7", but who's counting?) What caught me completely off-guard, however, was afterward when he kept us tangled in arms and legs and sheets, talking about the number of interests we shared while periodically kissing my cheek or forehead. I drove home smelling like the heavy-sweet cocoa butter on his skin.
...fast forward a month, and we're still meeting up pretty regularly (when I'm not insanely busy and when he's not insanely busy.) The original aim of the ad was to find a casual, not necessarily perfect, one-off distraction in the middle of holidays so the unusually high amount of chemistry was unexpected to say the least. I don't know how this'll continue (being the full-time employee, part-time student, and poly lady that I am), but he banters well, eats well, and fucks well. I'll make this work.