another reason why I should keep this guy

- a couple weeks ago when we met up, I insisted on no sex because I want to see if we have actual friendship staying-power (which we do, as I've been finding out bit by bit). he complied and we spent an hour in his room just half-naked grinding (since it's not sex, I think this counts as a success so shutup)

- right before I left he did request that I sit on his face so he could taste me properly (because the last time I sat on his face, he accidentally sucked blood for half an hour--a story I might revisit when I've gotten over my embarrassment). I complied oops

- did anyone really expect me to say no to that request